Sunday, December 30, 2018

One learning of 2018 : Dialogue

Ending the year with one of the most important element of learning. A practice as well as learning which happen through out the year. At many front of life still not able to apply or be effective.

Dialogue according to me is a open sincere communication with...

1. Oneself at all level and parts of being. Physical, Emotional, Mental, spiritual.
2. Other beings
3.Ones surrounding - Nature

Why?
One of the best tool to unleash and discover ones true self.

I learnt a process on dialogue during retreat held up at Krishnamurti study centre, bangalore @ Valley School. and still await to read, do, discuss on dialogue under the light of few materials collected. Sharing one part here.

"A dialogue is very important. It is a form of communication in which question and answer continue till a question is left without an answer. Thus the question is suspended between the two persons involved in this answer and question. It is like a bud with untouched blossoms . . . If the question is left totally untouched by thought, it then has its own answer because the questioner and answerer, as persons, have disappeared. This is a form of dialogue in which investigation reaches a certain point of intensity and depth, which then has a quality that thought can never reach." 
-Jiddu Krishnamurti

On other side, found it very difficult to practice at professional world which is full of Caprice. While at relationship front, struggle is on. Most of the time infact always we are more interested on answer , that to of our own preference. It's a practice in dialogue where we can slowly let go our perceptions, views, beliefs and preferences. Our attachments binding us to rome in same periphery during communication. Not allowing is to take a flight nor to dive deep in multiple questions and answer.

Dialogue with oneself has become so crucial that it reveals our inner and outer crust. Allowing us to Be.

When one is ready to change, other side is also willing than language is not a barrier. Silent dialogue becomes more effective and powerful.
If willingness is not there. Dialogues turns into discussions, debate and quarrel. While one person inner peace can bring sense of dialogue in any conversation.

Often I find myself on inner dialogue while I am still on work or conversation with someone else. Many insights have come when I am on inner dialogue while conversation is On at outer level. Somewhere benefiting both of us.

Looking forward for more such meaningful communication with self, Self and you all as part of Self.

eti Shubham

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